Mormon Stories 1480: The Sources of Mormon Sexual Shame - Natasha Helfer

Unpacking Mormon Sexual Shame: A Historical and Psychosocial Analysis

Why does the topic of sex engender such discomfort among members of the Mormon Church? Natasha Helfer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, delves into this question in the Mormon Stories podcast episode "The Sources of Mormon Sexual Shame." Through a series of discussions, Helfer uncovers the layers of historical, cultural, and religious factors that contribute to pervasive sexual guilt within the Latter-day Saint experience. This issue isn't unique to Mormonism; it echoes across various religious traditions, yet the unique traditions and teachings of the LDS Church make it a particularly compelling case study.

Historical Background and Emerging Patterns

The roots of Mormon sexual shame lie in the intertwining of religious teachings and cultural mores. Mormonism's strict code regarding sexual behavior is framed by doctrines that emphasize purity, marriage, and procreation. These beliefs are historically rooted in 19th-century American Protestantism and early Mormon teachings. From the pulpit, Church leaders often employ euphemisms like "intimacy" or "relations," which paradoxically make sex an ever-present yet taboo topic. The approach fosters a culture where sexual experiences are cloaked in secrecy and innuendo.

Natasha Helfer reveals that conversations around sex in Mormon contexts tend to focus on the prohibitive aspects rather than on positive education about sexual health and relationships. The absence of comprehensive sex education in both religious and public school contexts exacerbates the issue, leaving many members unprepared and anxious about their sexual identities.

Core Issues and Evidence