Asexuality - It's a Thing, and My Daughter Clara Wrote a Book About It Called "A Little Book of Ace"

Asexuality and Mormonism: Exploring the Unknown

When it comes to understanding human sexuality within religious communities, few topics are as under-discussed as asexuality. Though overshadowed by the more prominent sexual orientations, asexuality has quietly moved from the fringes to conversations that demand a deeper understanding, especially in faith-based communities. This is poignantly examined in Clara Delin's "A Little Book of Ace" which provides clarity on asexual experience. Raised in a Mormon family, Clara's journey emphasizes the necessity of recognizing and validating asexuality within the LDS community’s tradition of family and marriage.

Unraveling Asexuality, A Historical Context

Traditionally, the LDS Church has placed a heavy emphasis on heterosexual marriage and procreation, shaping the collective understanding of sexual orientation among members. While the church has made strides toward inclusivity with broader discussions around LGBTQIA+ topics, asexuality remains largely uncharted territory. Historically, discussions around sexual orientation in conservative religious contexts have focused on behaviors that align or conflict with doctrinal teachings. Asexuality, defined as the lack of sexual attraction to others, does not fit the more familiar narratives, making it a topic avoided in many religious discussions.

John Dehlin of the "Mormon Stories Podcast" acknowledges this oversight, sharing his personal revelation upon his daughter Clara's coming out as asexual. He openly admits that acceptance of asexuality was not straightforward, highlighting a common gap in awareness and understanding within religious households about this orientation.

Key Insights from Clara's Work