Sacrificing exaltation for Eternal Polygamy

The Eternal Dilemma: Polygamy and Exaltation in Mormonism

The concept of eternal polygamy has left an indelible mark on the lives of many women in the Mormon Church. This doctrine, rooted in the early teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), has led some women to a heartbreaking crossroads: choosing between their eternal exaltation and their personal happiness. This internal conflict raises questions about the cost of loyalty to faith and the enduring legacy of historic church practices.

Understanding Eternal Polygamy and Its Impact

Originating in the early 19th century, the practice of polygamy was instituted by Joseph Smith, the founding prophet of the LDS Church. Officially termed "plural marriage," this practice was presented as a divine commandment essential for achieving the highest levels of glory in the celestial kingdom. Though the Church discontinued the practice officially in 1890, its historical roots linger in the doctrine of eternal marriage, which still suggests that polygamy could be a part of the afterlife for faithful adherents who were part of polygamous unions in this life.

Today, many Mormon women grapple with the implications of these teachings. As discussed on a recent episode of the Mormon Stories Podcast, some women express willingness to forgo their own exaltation so their husbands might ascend to the celestial kingdom without the contingency of eternal polygamy. This personal sacrifice underscores a profound conflict between personal beliefs and traditional doctrines.

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