Struggling with Mormon Perfectionism - Ally Christiansen Pt. 1 | Ep. 1633

The Perfectionist Paradox in Mormonism: A Personal Struggle

For many, the concept of Mormon perfectionism is not merely a theological quirk, but a relentless pressure bearing down from childhood. This pressure is particularly palpable for those who, like Ally Christiansen as recounted on the Mormon Stories Podcast, grapple with living up to the stringent ideals often set within the LDS Church. This burden of perfection is a hallmark of the faith's cultural narrative, but it also sparks a poignant question: Is the pursuit of flawlessness lifting members up, or is it weighing them down?

The Historical Context of Mormon Perfectionism

Rooted in the teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the drive for perfection is neither new nor unexpected. It draws heavily from doctrines that encourage members to strive to be more like Jesus Christ, a perfect being. However, as Christiansen's story illustrates, the doctrine often blurs into unrealistic expectations, particularly for perfection-focused students like those at Brigham Young University. Historical anecdotes echo this sentiment, with countless members over decades recalling the dichotomy of outward success versus internal struggle.

Mormonism's emphasis on perfection is often linked to a heightened sense of worth associated with one's behavior and accomplishments. A narrative that begins in childhood, as Ally shared, can develop into a lifelong voyage of striving for an often unattainable ideal, leaving individuals torn between faith and personal peace.

Evidence of a Cultural Expectation